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@Player__Id, a pro Beale Twitter account, true identity revealed!
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Pro Beale Twitter user famed for tweeting defensive Beale content and tweets that insult and defame supporters for being negative towards him actually turns out to be the man himself! No wonder the fucker didn't turn up to extra training he was online trolling.
https://x.com/ed03__/status/1759916388997603407?s=20
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He's actually a proper pathetic gimp like
Men that were/are players what are your ACTUAL thoughts on dating? Would you ever change your ways/how did you change them?
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I always hear older men say "back in my days I was a player" and this and that and I always wonder what moment they must've had that made them realize "maybe I shouldn't treat girls this way" what goes through a man's mind when he talks to multiple women or wants to keep his options open? Just curious as to how most younger men view dating
Top Comment: "maybe I shouldn't treat girls this way" Like what? I've had sex with a lot of women. I like doing that because I really like women and fun. I am only interested in doing that if she likes the idea just as much as me. Remember as kids you'd meet a friend on the playground and you'd be best friends for an hour before one of our parents separated us - never to be seen again? Casual sex is that for adults imo. There's no disrespect, animosity, or anything negative. We're just consenting adults having fun.
How can I know if a man is a player or not?
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I’ve been on two dates with this man, live music first one and second time he cooked for me in his flat. I’m really infatuated with him because he’s smart, creative and really gentle and thoughtful. He travels alot for his startup and he’s rarely in one place for more than a month (for the time being at least). How can I know if he’s thoughtfulness and charm is because he actually likes me or hes a player and I’m just one of them?
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For those of you who successfully became a “player,” how did it work out for you?
Main Post: For those of you who successfully became a “player,” how did it work out for you?
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I had a roommate that did this for about a decade and he was the biggest fucking loser I've ever met. It's not that glamorous.
Years later and the reddit video player is still hot garbage.
Main Post: Years later and the reddit video player is still hot garbage.
Top Comment: r/fixthevideoplayer
[Player] Thoughts on this series?
Main Post: [Player] Thoughts on this series?
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What makes a guy a player?
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I am very fascinated with psychology and many times wonder what makes a man to be a player? I have often heard these men being bad-mouthed by all women but never actually understood the core of what led a man to jump from women to women and hurt them by 'playing' them? Are they straight up spoilt jerks or is there something deeper to uncover here?
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- When I say 'Player', I am not 'labelling' anyone. Just trying to sum up an entire paragraph that I dont want to write in just one word, but either ways, I will still have to write this paragraph because of the accusations of me labelling men. By 'Player' I mean a man who lies to women to get in their pants and leaves them be, once he is done with them and not care about the emotional damage they cause. This is also not a direct hit at the general male population because not all of the men are like this, obviously. I am only asking about a part of the male population that could be called a 'player'.
- I am only talking about males in this section because I have asked about women players in another section. I ask about them separately because I believe that the roots hugely differ from each other (or maybe not, y'all can just tell me)
- This is not a personal question and I am in no way seeking relationship advice as mentioned by some idiot in the comments. This is just me trying to understand what makes someone do this on a regular basis.
Top Comment: My association with the word is womanizer with lots of social capital.
How do you know if he’s a player?
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If a guy acts very interested and also very confident (not nervous) on a date, I worry he might be a player.
I’d say a player is characterized by having lots of dating experience + expressing exaggerated (insincere) interest in his dates.
But how to distinguish this from a guy who’s actually into you and says all the “right” things on dates because he’s nice?
Top Comment: Time. Players IME tend to want to rush things along and usually lack patience. Not always, but that's been enough of a trend for me that I use it as a guide. But I also pay attention to other factors so I'm not just analyzing off limited data.